Online Therapy for ADHD UK

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Anxiety Diverts Historical Difficulties…

Our therapy can offer valuable insights and support for you if you are suspecting you have ADHD, or maybe you have self diagnosed ADHD, or maybe you are waiting for a diagnosis or feeling confused after a diagnosis. Let’s explore this further and challenge the conventional perspectives…

Considering Gabor Maté’s perspective…

Dr. Gabor Maté, a physician specialising in neurology, psychiatry, and psychology, challenges the conventional understanding of ADHD. He believes that ADHD is not solely an inherited disease but rather a reversible impairment with developmental origins in infancy.

Maté suggests that ADHD symptoms are linked to multigenerational family stress, disturbed social conditions, and unresolved psychological difficulties. Trauma, including historical abuse, plays a significant role in shaping these symptoms.

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Scattered minds

In his book “Scattered Minds: A New Look at the Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder,” Maté offers fresh insights into ADHD. He writes from the perspective of someone with ADHD, providing hope for both adults and children living with the disorder.

The book challenges the notion that ADHD is purely genetically based and emphasises the impact of socialisation, attachment, and trauma on its development.

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A paradox of attention

One intriguing aspect Maté highlights is the symptom of “zoning out.” Rather than dismissing it as mere hyperactivity, he suggests that it may be a valid trauma response.

Zoning out is a protective mechanism, allowing us to disconnect from overwhelming stimuli or distressing memories. In this context, it becomes more about self-preservation than hyperactivity.

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The role of therapy

Our therapy explores unconscious processes, unresolved conflicts, and your early life experiences to uncover hidden patterns and promote self-awareness.

If you are self-diagnosing with ADHD, our therapy can help you explore trauma, attachment issues, and emotional regulation. We work collaboratively to understand how the symptoms relate to past experiences.

By addressing underlying psychological difficulties, you can gain insight into your symptoms and develop coping strategies. This approach aligns with Maté’s holistic view of ADHD.

Our therapy provides a space for you to explore the deeper roots of your symptoms, including trauma-related aspects. While ADHD professionals often focus on hyperactivity, diagnosing and prescribing medication. Maté’s perspective and our therapy encourages us to consider the broader context and your individual experiences.

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Historical psychological problems and ADHD symptoms

Attachment Issues: Early disruptions in attachment (e.g., inconsistent caregiving) may contribute to ADHD symptoms. Insecure attachment can affect self-regulation and attention.

Self-Esteem and Underachievement: ADHD-related difficulties (academic, occupational) can lead to low self-esteem. Our therapy explores self-worth and achievement patterns.

Unresolved Trauma: Traumatic experiences may exacerbate ADHD symptoms. Addressing trauma through therapy can improve overall functioning.

Maladaptive Coping Mechanisms: Individuals with ADHD may develop maladaptive coping strategies (e.g., avoidance, denial). Our therapy helps identify and modify these patterns.

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The benefits of therapy

Insight and Self-Awareness: Our therapy helps clients gain insight into their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. By exploring past experiences and relationships, you can better understand your ADHD symptoms.

Emotional Regulation: ADHD individuals may struggle with emotional regulation. Our therapy helps them recognise and manage intense emotions, reducing impulsivity and reactivity.

Interpersonal Skills: Addressing historical relational patterns can improve social functioning and communication skills.

Unconscious Processes: Our therapy uncovers unconscious conflicts, defence mechanisms, and unresolved issues that contribute to ADHD symptoms.

Integration with Medication: Combining therapy with medication provides a comprehensive approach to managing ADHD.

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ELEMENTS OF MY PRACTICE

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  • Studies have found that trauma occurring in childhood may exacerbate or predict some ADHD symptoms. Traumatic events, such as experiencing violence, abuse, or neglect, can not only result in children behaving in ways that imitate ADHD, but these symptoms can develop well into adulthood as well.

  • Research indicates that experiences of childhood trauma can lead to symptoms that present similarly to ADHD.

    Trauma history should be part of a thorough assessment when making any diagnosis or treatment plan.

    While not all individuals with trauma will have ADHD, and vice versa, there are common links. Here are some key points:

    1. Trauma and ADHD Symptoms:

      • Childhood trauma, including adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), can exacerbate or contribute to ADHD symptoms.

      • Trauma-related symptoms such as hypervigilance, hyperarousal, impulsivity, and distractibility may overlap with ADHD symptoms.

      • Undiagnosed PTSD in children has been linked to the development of major depression, substance abuse, aggression, and suicidal tendencies.

    2. Assessment and Treatment:

      • Clinicians should consider trauma history when evaluating ADHD symptoms.

      • Productivity coaching can be helpful for individuals with symptoms that mimic ADHD, validating their experiences while addressing their needs.

      • Treatment should address both trauma-related symptoms and ADHD symptoms, recognising their interconnectedness.

  • ADHD is typically categorised into three main types based on the predominant symptoms:

    1. Inattentive type (ADHD-PI): Individuals with this type experience more symptoms of inattention than impulsivity and hyperactivity. They may struggle with impulse control or hyperactivity at times, but these aren’t the main characteristics. People with inattentive ADHD often:

      • Miss details and get distracted easily.

      • Have trouble focusing on a single task.

      • Struggle with organising thoughts and learning new information.

      • Lose items needed for tasks.

      • Process information more slowly than others.

    2. Hyperactive-impulsive type (ADHD-PH): This type is characterised by symptoms of impulsivity and hyperactivity. While signs of inattention may be present, they are not as marked as the other symptoms. People with hyperactive-impulsive ADHD often:

      • Squirm, fidget, or feel restless.

      • Have difficulty sitting still.

      • Talk constantly.

      • Touch and play with objects inappropriately.

      • Have trouble engaging in quiet activities.

      • Act impulsively without considering consequences.

    3. Combined type (ADHD-C): Individuals with combined ADHD exhibit both inattention and hyperactivity-impulsivity. Their symptoms can significantly impact daily life and may include a mix of the characteristics mentioned above.

    Remember that everyone is unique, and symptoms can vary from person to person. Boys and girls may also express ADHD differently, with boys often appearing more hyperactive and girls more quietly inattentive.

  • Living with ADHD can be challenging, but there are strategies and tools that can help you manage your symptoms and achieve your goals. Here are some tips to consider:

    1. Set Up Time to Plan:

      • Designate a consistent time each day to think through your tasks, plan your schedule, and celebrate your accomplishments.

      • Optimise your physical and digital environments to support your planning process.

    2. Create an ADHD Tool Kit:

      • Make lists of tasks you want to accomplish each day. Prioritise them and check them off as you complete them.

      • Use timers to create a sense of urgency and focus on one task at a time. Consider apps like the Tomato Timer for timed work sessions.

    3. Break Tasks into Smaller Parts:

      • When a task feels overwhelming, break it down into smaller steps. Focus on one part at a time.

      • Visualise yourself completing each step to make it feel less intimidating.

    4. Practice Self-Care:

      • Prioritise rest, exercise, and healthy eating. Taking care of your physical health can positively impact your mental well-being.

      • Consider mindfulness techniques or relaxation exercises to manage stress.

    5. Build Self-Esteem:

      • Recognise your achievements, no matter how small. Celebrate progress and give yourself credit.

      • Surround yourself with supportive people who understand your challenges.

    6. Ask for Help:

      • Don’t hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or professionals. They can offer guidance and encouragement.

    Remember, change won’t happen overnight, but with consistent effort and self-compassion, you can navigate life with ADHD more effectively.

  • ADHD has its challenges, often referred to as the “dark side.” Here are some aspects people with ADHD may face:

    1. Communication Struggles: On bad days, expressing unique perspectives can feel like speaking a foreign language. Others may not understand, leaving you feeling isolated or misunderstood.

    2. Emotional Overload: ADHD imaginations can run wild, leading to negative thoughts and worst-case scenarios. This emotional rollercoaster can be overwhelming.

    3. Physical Discomfort: Constant restlessness due to sensory overload makes it hard to relax. Adjusting legs, arms, and back becomes a constant battle.

    4. Relationship Challenges: Unstable relationships and poor self-esteem are common due to impulsivity and emotional dysregulation.

    5. Cognitive Overload: Managing tasks, time, and information can be exhausting, impacting daily life.

    6. Medication Side Effects: Some ADHD medications may have adverse effects.

    7. Sleep Disturbances: Sleep problems are prevalent among individuals with ADHD.

    8. Impact on Self-Esteem: Struggling with daily tasks can affect self-worth.

  • ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) and trauma can present similar symptoms, although they impact each person differently. Here are some overlapping symptoms between the two:

    1. Restlessness: Both ADHD and trauma can lead to feelings of restlessness or being fidgety.

    2. Low self-esteem: Individuals with both conditions may struggle with self-esteem.

    3. Sleep problems: Sleep disturbances can occur in both ADHD and trauma.

    4. Hypervigilance around others: This heightened awareness can be seen in both cases.

    5. Avoidance tendencies: People with ADHD and trauma may avoid certain situations.

    6. Emotional dysregulation: Difficulties managing emotions are common in both conditions.

    7. Executive dysfunction: Challenges with organisation and task management are shared symptoms.

    While these symptoms overlap, the relationship between ADHD and trauma is nuanced, and there’s no definitive causal link.

  • ADHD and trauma can sometimes present similar symptoms, making it challenging to differentiate between them. Here are some key points to consider:

    1. ADHD:

      • Characteristics: Inattention, hyperactivity, impulsivity.

      • Cause: Neurodevelopmental condition influenced by genetics and early-life stressors.

      • Symptoms: Restlessness, distractibility, difficulty focusing, impulsivity, and challenges with organisation and emotion management.

      • Link to Trauma: Childhood trauma can intensify ADHD symptoms, but trauma occurring later in life is unlikely to cause ADHD.

    2. Trauma:

      • Emotional Response: Result of distressing events.

      • Symptoms: Overlapping with ADHD, including restlessness, distractibility, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.

      • Differentiation: Trauma may also manifest as “acting out” behaviours.

      • PTSD: Adults with diagnosed ADHD are more likely to have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD.

  • Although I don't diagnose, let's meet and find some clarity...

ADHD is not a problem of knowing what to do – it is a problem of doing what you know.” “Never at rest the mind of the ADHD adult flits about like some deranged bird that can light here or there for a while but is perched no-where long enough to make a home.
— Gabor Maté